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as daznai susimastau,kodel kai kurios poros,atrodo,juk pykstasi vos ne del paciu priezasciu,bet vienos gyvena kartu,o kitos skiriasi...
ir perskaiciau idomu straipsni,tiesa,anglu k.,bet kas suprantat,gal pasisemsite idomios minties....
Do you and your spouse fight and bicker a lot?
You might have a fear deep inside that this constant fighting,
arguing and disrespect are just symptoms of an
incompatibility which will sooner or later tear you two apart.
On the surface that make sense, right? Why else would you
always end up fighting over even the littlest things?
But based on the thousands of couples I’ve worked with, I
can confidently tell you that you’re likely NOT incompatible
at all. In fact, it’s very likely that you’re very compatible.
What’s really going on is a power struggle. You’re both
perceiving each other (at least subconsciously) as opponents
instead of as teammates.
This results in one or both of you trying to dominate the
other (or avoid being dominated).
Whether that threat of domination is real or just perceived,
it causes the friction which leads to the conversation...
which escalates into the argument... which leads to voices
being raised... which finally leads to the fight...
... because neither of you is really going to let themselves
be completely dominated, are you?
Although having a power struggle within a couple is pretty
common, it can lead to fighting and affairs which can
eventually end up tearing you apart.
The good news is that...
... by addressing the root cause with the right approach based
on your unique situation...
... You can quickly replace that sense of power struggle
with a sense of compassionately having each other's
back 100%.
... And when you know each of you have each other's back,
you've now created a strong 'breakup-proof' relationship
that's built on a rock solid foundation.
Think about it...
If you both feel more like opponents than teammates, it's
much more likely for your relationship to get sick (infidelity,
resentment, more fighting, lack of intimacy) and eventually
die (breakup/divorce).
And the longer your relationship is 'sick' with this power
struggle, the more opportunities it will have to end.
So make a committment for your sake (and for your
partner's sake) to end your power struggle with each
other.
jis zino, kad neturite kur detis, tad visiskai atsipalaidavo. mato, kad ir koks jo elgesys bebutu, niekur jus su 3 vaikais nepabegsit. karta nugirdau vyru pokalbi, kalbejo apie kitas moteris ir vienas leptelejo, kad net jei ir suzinos zmona, niekur ji nesides su 2 vaikais 
) tai baime, kad susiradau kita 
Ir tas sekso nenorėjimas nepaaiškinamas... 
